Wealth at the Speed of Safety: Regulate Your Nervous System Around Money (with Victoria Davitashvili)

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Could it be the reason so many successful women feel financially trapped isn't because they don't make enough?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But because their nervous system won't let them feel safe with money. They have 6-figure incomes, beautiful homes, and impressive careers, yet behind closed doors, they're lying awake at night, wondering if it's all gonna disappear tomorrow.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Today's conversation reveals what most money experts never talk about, and the one internal shift that quietly determines whether wealth grows or slips through your fingers. And by the end, you'll know exactly what that shift is.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Hi, and welcome to the You World Order Showcase Podcast, where we feature life, health, transformational coaches, and spiritual entrepreneurs stepping up to be the change they seek in the world. I'm your host, Jill Hart, the Coach's Alchemist, on a mission to empower life, health, and transformational coaches and spiritual entrepreneurs to amplify their voice, monetize their mission, and get visible. If you're ready to start attracting premium clients without chasing algorithms or hunting people down like a

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Today, we are talking with Victoria.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: the… Devatashvili?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Oh, I got it!

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Vicki is a wealth mentorship and financial strategist who helps high-achieving women heal their relationships with money so they can build true financial freedom. With over 25 years in financial services, she brings deep expertise in investing, debt elimination, and wealth strategy, paired with grounded spiritual approach.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Well, it treats money as an energetic, practical

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: As both a practical tool and an energetic relationship.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: After a life-altering health crisis forced her to reexamine everything, Vicki realized that many accomplished women don't actually feel safe with money, even when they earn a lot.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Through her work and her community, Wealthy and Unstoppable, over on school, she guides women to move from scarcity and stress into clarity, confidence, and aligned abundance. Welcome to the show, Vicki. I am so excited to have this conversation with you.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Oh, thank you, and I am so excited to be here. Thank you so much for the opportunity.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: So, let me ask you the big question, which is, what's the most significant thing, in your opinion, as individuals, we can do to make an impact on how the world is going?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Well, the reason I got into Wealthy and Unstoppable and why I created it is because we are going through a seismic shift as a society. There is a huge wealth transfer underway.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Where women are going to inherit $30 trillion, with a T, trillion dollars in wealth.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And, you know, what's interesting is that women will, for the first time in history.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Have more… be at the helm of more assets than men.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And yet, if you take a look at our upbringing, what we've been taught about money, the way that we've been taught to relate to money, the way that no one ever taught us about money.

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Victoria Davitashvili: How are we going to be the stewards of $30 trillion in the future?

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Victoria Davitashvili: how are we gonna do that, right? And so, I am here on this big mission of really wanting to bring to light

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Victoria Davitashvili: Both the things that… money is energy, number one.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And you CANNOT Hold and expand energy unless you, energetically as a vessel.

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Victoria Davitashvili: are ready for that. It's like a light bulb. And if the light bulb can't hold any more than 60 watts, it's gonna burst.

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Victoria Davitashvili: So if you as a woman inherit all that money, but you're not able to manage and multiply that money, or steward that money.

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Victoria Davitashvili: It's gonna slip away.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Just like lottery winner.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Exactly. I was just thinking of that. 75% of lottery winners lose everything, and they're in worse shape than before they had, like, before the winnings.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But two…

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Victoria Davitashvili: You have to have the financial literacy and the acumen so that if you are speaking to a financial advisor, that financial advisor doesn't take advantage of you as a woman.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Right? And so that you can run circles around the financial advisor and ask the informed and the smart questions. And so I'm on this mission of creating female financial badasses.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Where you can both energetically, but also have the know-how to steward the money. Because, ladies, we are about to inherit a lot.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And so let's be ready for it.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah. I'm sitting here going, and it's not everybody that you're speaking to, it's… It's people who…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Are… are in a certain group?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And whether you're entrepreneurs, or you're,

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: you're doing other things. Maybe you have a career, and you're… you're making all the money?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Having wealth is different than being a wage earner, or even a… an entrepreneur.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: taxes.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And is one big thing that people just don't even have any clue about. The process of transferring wealth from one generation to the next is another thing people don't talk about, we're never educated on. And if your parents are wealthy and do not have a trust.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Oh my god!

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You're just…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Asking for disaster to happen, and if you have, as a parent, a lot of wealth that you're thinking you're moving into your children's.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Future?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You, too, need a trust. I mean, there are tools that the wealthy men predominantly use to protect this… these assets from generation to generation that we are never taught about.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Hmm?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: ever, as women. It's just, like, you're certainly not gonna hear about it in school. But,

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You're talking about trillions of dollars that will get stolen from you if you aren't careful, you know?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: lottery winners look at all that money coming at them and think, I'll never have to work again a day in my life! But they don't think about, you know, how… how am I gonna make this money grow? You can't just stick it in the bank.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I'm sorry, I'm very passionate about…

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Victoria Davitashvili: No, I love it. And, you know, to answer your question, you know, the why, or what's the big takeaway, here's the big takeaway. Abundance creates more abundance. The more abundant you are, the more abundance you create. And, you know, so I do have a corporate job.

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Victoria Davitashvili: even in my day job, what I say is that the more abundant I am, the more self-empowered, self-embodied I am, the more I'm willing to take that and to share it, and to

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Victoria Davitashvili: to… to pass it down to the younger generation of women that are coming up. Like.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I… I… you know, in my day job, I'm even a co-chair of this, organization for women at work. Why? Because I want women to rise, because when one boat rises, we all rise together.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: And so, the same thing with abundance. And this goes for men, too. Like, I don't want to exclude men, but I've been leaning into women because, A, I understand them, I understand that experience, it's my lived experience, and B, it's just something that I naturally gravitated to because

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Victoria Davitashvili: I fell into this because women who were 6-plus figure income earners were reaching out to me and saying, Vicki, there is a huge disconnect in my head.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I make over $100,000, $150,000 a year. I am in my early 40s. I know I don't nearly have enough in savings. I'm drowning in debt.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I am uber-educated and let… and yet, I don't have enough to make my ends meet. Help me understand what is happening.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And what I realized is that this is not a math problem.

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Victoria Davitashvili: This is not about these women not knowing how to add and subtract the top line and the bottom line.

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Victoria Davitashvili: it goes much deeper than that. There's energetics, patterns from our childhood, from growing up, what we heard, the things that we… the beliefs that we formed around money. But then there's also a very true limitation

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Victoria Davitashvili: In knowing, how do you open a brokerage account?

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Victoria Davitashvili: What are the different investment classes that exist? What's the difference between an exchange-traded fund or a mutual fund? Why is one perhaps better than the other?

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Victoria Davitashvili: How do you make money work for you while you sleep?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Through dividend income, where money literally gets deposited to you because you took your money out of your bank account.

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Victoria Davitashvili: You took it out of cash.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And you bought a pretty safe investment. And now that investment is paying you. And that is how the wealthy are making money in their sleep. And I want to end the story that we have to work hard for our money, because no, we don't.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Money literally grows on trees. Literally grows on trees. And so, when you can embody that energy of abundance, and you start to realize

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Victoria Davitashvili: That it is this abundant, and it can be this easy, It becomes life-altering.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It really does. And, you know, we look at these numbers and we think, Oh, they're so big!

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Relatively speaking, making $150,000 a year is not that much.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Relative to the cost of things.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And I think as… as the economies expand.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And the cost of things also, inflation.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: goes with it, that we… we seem to think that

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: We're gonna be immune to this stuff, and we keep trying to… to scale up our lifestyle without realizing that our… our…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: our actual… Earnings are decreasing, and we need to…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: If you want to invest long-term, and if you want to grow wealth, you need to

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: To pick a lane and stay in it, in terms of that, I mean live within your means, below your means. At least slightly below your means, so you have money to save and money to invest. And those two pieces are really important. And I'm not talking about 401 investing, though

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah, if that's all you got, do that. Max that out.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You know, because if you're working for a company that matches it.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It can be good, but don't just blindly stick your money in there.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Manage that 401K. Look at what your options are. What's… how do you feel safe? Talk to the investing… investment company that's behind it. And, you know, a lot of people don't even realize that you can do stuff with your 401 .

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Victoria Davitashvili: Yeah, I mean, that's a huge topic all unto itself.

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Victoria Davitashvili: But this is where financial literacy comes in, right? So, financial literacy, and in the world of AI, this becomes actually really simple, and I'll give your listeners something super practical, something I personally did, so I'm gonna vouch for it. So…

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Victoria Davitashvili: What happens with a 401K is, you know, you put money in, and then

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Victoria Davitashvili: you have an employer match. So if you put in… a lot of times it's like 3 or 4%, so if you put 3 or 4% of your money into a 401 , there are two benefits to that. One is, it comes out before… so it's pre-tax dollars, right? So your net paycheck actually can be bigger because you have now reduced your tax burden, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: much you're being taxed on your wages, so that's one benefit of that. Two, you always want to know and understand what your employer matches, right? And so, because that's free money. Like, you put in $100, and your employer puts in $100? Oh my god, you've now doubled

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Victoria Davitashvili: The dollars that you're putting in.

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Victoria Davitashvili: But the biggest mistake I see for the people who are contributing into their 401Ks is they never ever take a look at what they're invested in. And so they will invest into something that earns, like, 3-4% a year, whereas our Truflation number, not

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Victoria Davitashvili: the Consumer Price Index, not what you hear on the news, that is not the real cost of inflation. It is not 2%, and it is not 3%, because I assure you, the moment you walk into a grocery store, you're paying at least double from what you were paying a couple of years ago. So, your dollar…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: not last week.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Okay, yeah, so I'm just trying to be generous here. So…

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Victoria Davitashvili: What is happening is your cost of living is going up

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Victoria Davitashvili: Let's just… easy math. 10%. Your money is earning 4%. You have a 6% gap!

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Victoria Davitashvili: What you should be doing is, if your cost of living is going up 10%, you want your money outpacing that 10%, right? You want it earning 16-20%, because you

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Victoria Davitashvili: cannot grow your income as fast as the cost of living right now. You're… I can…

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Victoria Davitashvili: This might be bold, but the only way for you to get out of the hamster wheel

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Victoria Davitashvili: Is to out-invest

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Victoria Davitashvili: your money, meaning your income to be performing, your investment to be performing that much better, faster than your cost of living. And that's the only way to out-earn your money right now. You will not

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Victoria Davitashvili: decrease your spend into wealth right now. Meaning, if you stop buying that cup of coffee every single day, it is not going to save you. I'm sorry.

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Victoria Davitashvili: You need to invest your dollars in a way that they grow faster than your cost of living. And so here's a very practical application of what you can do.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Take everything, like, go into your portfolio, take a look at, and, you know, it'll have, like, 10 or 12 different mutual funds that you can invest into.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Literally copy the data. Copy the name of the fund, and then it's 30-day, 1-year, 5-year, 10-year performance. That's always available in your 401 . Copy that.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Paste it.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Put it into an AI that you trust. It can be Gemini, it can be Chad, it could be Grok, whatever you feel comfortable with. And say to it, act like

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Victoria Davitashvili: a financial advisor with 20 years of experience. Based on these results.

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Victoria Davitashvili: for the mutual funds that are available in my 401 account. I am 30 years old.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I am, you know, I have a high risk of tolerance, I have low risk of tolerance, I want… I want something that is going to grow at more than 10% a year.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Help me rebalance my portfolio in such a way that it grows at at least 10% or more every single year based on this data.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And literally, like magic.

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Victoria Davitashvili: the AI is going to spit back out your portfolio balance, and it's going to say, okay, put 40% into this type of fund, 30% into this, 20% and it gives you a diversified portfolio based on exactly what is within your account and available to you.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Take it, Do as it says?

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Victoria Davitashvili: And leave it alone. Do you know whose portfolio grows the best based on some studies that they have done by Fidelity and other financial services companies?

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: No, who?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Dead people.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I kid you not.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I believe it, because they don't mess with it. They said it, and forget it.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Forget it, and when you forget your password for 30 years, and you just let it sit there and compound in something quality.

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Victoria Davitashvili: you'll be a multi-millionaire. And so, that's what I want you to do, is don't just very passively be like, oh, the company's got my back. No, you gotta have your own back, right? And in the world of AI,

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Victoria Davitashvili: Literally, figure out what that right portfolio feels.

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Victoria Davitashvili: personalized to you, and then just go and do it. I did it, and I went from a rate of return of 2% to a rate of return of 19%.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah, it's a big deal, and so many people… because your employer's not going to tell you about it, or if they do, it's buried in, like.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: A big stack of papers that no one ever reads.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: They're to protect you.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Yeah.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah. And you don't have to go in there and change it every… 15, 20 days, just…

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Victoria Davitashvili: Just let it ride. But do go back and check it at the end of the year.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Let it ride for a year, and make sure that it's doing what it's supposed to be doing, and if not.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Do the process again.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But don't… don't just, like… I hesitate to tell people that you can trust AI, because AI does…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: come up with its own ideas sometimes, and it's not…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's not, like, this is not financial advice.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: please don't take this as, you will definitely, if you do this, make 10% a year, or even make what AI says you're gonna make. But it's a good starting place.

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Victoria Davitashvili: It's better than nothing.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But keep an eye on it, and, you know, if it… if it looks like it's, like.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: a hallucination from your AI, then you're at least checking in. Don't just, like, be a dead person and…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And hope for the best, because things change. Things change kind of quickly in the financial world, and things go up, and things go down, and if you're watching it and panicking on the ups and downs.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's better to do it maybe 12 times a year, and know that you're only going to make changes once a year. But…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Look at the beginning and the end, not the ups and downs.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: that we go through. Like, last year was so interesting to me, because it looked like the market sucked most of the year.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But it really went up, like, I don't know, was it 30% or something?

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Victoria Davitashvili: phenomenal year! The S&P 500 went up by, like, 18 or 19… 17 or 18%. Yeah, yeah. I mean, that's a phenomenal year. That's a really good year.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It was a really good year.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Yeah!

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Look at the chart, it's like…

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Victoria Davitashvili: Well, so, do you know when you get nervous about the chart?

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Victoria Davitashvili: You get nervous about the chart when your nervous system is dysregulated, number one.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And two, when, again, energy of money, and two, when you don't understand the dynamics of the market. That's why financial literacy is so incredibly important.

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Victoria Davitashvili: For example, people who invested in NVIDIA,

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Victoria Davitashvili: had conviction that AI was gonna be a really big thing. And if they didn't sell it.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Like, the market dropped, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: And if your nervous system is dysregulated, and you have an anxious attachment style with money, because

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Victoria Davitashvili: We all have a relationship with money. That relationship with money is rooted back to our childhood. And just like, you know, the relationship styles, you could be avoidant, you could be anxious, or you could be secure. The exact same dynamic hap… like…

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Victoria Davitashvili: is, you know, comes through with money. So if you're anxious attached, you're somebody who's, like, literally checking their spreadsheet, checking their account, et cetera, every single day, and if it goes down a dollar, you start panicking. Versus somebody who's avoidant, you get bills in the mail, you don't even open them. Why? It's not because you don't have enough money in your account, it's because you're afraid

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Victoria Davitashvili: afraid that that money is going to escape and run away from you, and of course.

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Victoria Davitashvili: you being such an amazing manifester, and the universe being, like, a yes, like, oh yes, you think it's gonna disappear? Okay, yes, it's gonna disappear. It always says yes, right? And so, it will manifest the disappearance of your money. Why? Because your nervous system

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Victoria Davitashvili: You double down, and you take all the money that you can, $100, $500,

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Victoria Davitashvili: And you go and you buy extra shares, and boy, would you be dancing now, if you had. And that's where that regulation, while also understanding the market dynamics, is so incredibly important. It's not just about energy of money, and it's not just about financial literacy. You need to have both.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And that's why it's so incredibly powerful.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah. And you need to have community, because it's really hard to do something like this out there by yourself, or with just your spouse, and, you know, money arguments happen.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: an investment…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Things… when you… when you're depending on somebody else who really isn't all that cognizant about financial things either.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Those… those money arguments can get out of hand quickly, unless you have a community and a space where you can have honest conversations about what's happening, and that is where your community comes into play. You guys talk about all kinds of things in there.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Share with us?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Yeah, so can I actually… I was doing such a happy dance, and so I'll just tell you. So, I created the Wealthy and Unstoppable Circle.

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Victoria Davitashvili: This all came about, about 6 or, like, 8 months ago. I had a girlfriend who reached out to me, and she was like, Vicki, I'm… it was literally that person. She's like, I'm making $150,000, I'm educated, I have an amazing job, yet I am, like, drowning in debt, I don't know how I'm gonna make ends meet, I don't know why I am in the situation that I am.

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Victoria Davitashvili: So, it was really interesting, and then she said to me something that really struck me, and she goes, Vicki, what stock should I buy? What stock should I buy so that I get out of this situation?

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Victoria Davitashvili: And I was like…

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Victoria Davitashvili: hmm, I think you have nervous system dysregulation when it comes to money, because you're, like, super avoidant and super anxious. You don't want to look at your money situation. But two, you are also super intimidated by money.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Like, she wouldn't open up a brokerage account. She was, like, refusing to open up a brokerage account, right? So, because she was like, I don't know, she's like, well, what do I buy? Like, even if I… if I open up a brokerage account, what do I buy? What's an ETF? What's a mutual fund? What do you… it's like I was speaking, like, a foreign language to her.

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Victoria Davitashvili: So, out of that, I created this community, and in the community.

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Victoria Davitashvili: What I want to create is, number one, is we… everything starts with safety.

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Victoria Davitashvili: You're gonna manifest.

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Victoria Davitashvili: The life of your dreams at the speed of safety.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Whether it's in your business, in your career, with your money, because it's all energy. It's all energy.

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Victoria Davitashvili: So, if you want to bring more money, more light into your vessel, you have to feel safe.

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Victoria Davitashvili: So, everything I do in that community comes back to how do we go back to regulating our nervous system with money? So, I teach, you know, tips and tricks to help you feel safe.

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Victoria Davitashvili: To help place awareness, because everything starts with awareness, of where do your money stories stem from?

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Victoria Davitashvili: And what might your money stories be?

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Victoria Davitashvili: For example, we as women don't feel comfortable asking people for help, especially high-achieving women, because what have we done our entire lives?

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Victoria Davitashvili: We were praised.

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Victoria Davitashvili: for getting really great grades, for getting good grades. We were praised for being really good girls, never giving our parents any problems. I was that child. My mom always said, oh my god, you are my angel, you never give me any problems. So what's my identity?

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Victoria Davitashvili: My identity is I'm an angel, I don't ask tough questions, I don't push back, I just do as I'm told, and for this I will be rewarded, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: So, and, same thing was happening in my marriage. I wouldn't ask my husband for help. Why? Because I'm the sweet wife, right? So…

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Victoria Davitashvili: there are stories that we create, and I want to place awareness on these stories and how they're unique, especially to our experience as women, as mothers, as daughters, as wives, right? So we talk about safety.

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Victoria Davitashvili: We talk about the energy of money, and how do you expand your wealth? Because I kind of said, you know, you're like a light bulb. And if your light bulb is built for 60 watts, but you send down electricity of 180 watts.

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Victoria Davitashvili: You're gonna implode. You're gonna explode, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: So how do you build an energetic vessel? I'll give you a simple, simple practice. You can expand your vessel, expand your ability to receive.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Simply by receiving compliments.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Jill.

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Victoria Davitashvili: You're such a gracious host. You're such a beautiful and gorgeous human being. I absolutely love and look forward to your daily notes in your community, and I always delight at the way that you engage with every single community member. And we flood each other with

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Victoria Davitashvili: these types of compliments. And if these compliments feel icky.

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Victoria Davitashvili: That means your vessel is having a hard time receiving.

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Victoria Davitashvili: If these compliments are, like, It's so fun, and I love it!

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Victoria Davitashvili: then that means that you have a vessel that can receive, and guess what? When your vessel is open to receive, it's gonna receive all sorts of energy. Like, you're trying to manifest more money, but, you know, your relationships are gonna get better, you're gonna feel more fun, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: So, we talk about how do you expand your vessel to receive more, but then we also talk about money literacy, right? What's happening in the financial markets? When the Fed lowers interest rates, what does that mean to you? Oh, did you know that your rate of inflation is gonna go up? So, oh, by the way, eggs are gonna be more expensive, but so are stocks, so the sooner you invest.

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Victoria Davitashvili: the more money you're gonna make in the market, right? And that's the true, implication here, right? And really giving people the insights and the understanding. And I know I'm giving you a super long answer, but you asked me about community, and it's my passion, so I gotta tell you something super quick.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I… I love it. And I am part of your community, and you do have a thread in there directly about, complimenting your members, and it helps people to get some practice at hearing a compliment. I think it's like a 3-minute.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Yeah.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: exercise where you just compliment them, and you can listen to it every day. I did that for a while. It was really empowering. And when we talk about wealth, I also want to point out that wealth isn't always money.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Wealth is abundance, and it comes in a lot of different ways at you, so when you start opening up your energetic container.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Things will happen for you. You'll find discounts on stuff. You'll… you'll get money randomly, will come from different places. You'll get gifts.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And gifts can come in a lot of different flavors, and in unexpected ways, and it's just, like, more opportunity for… for the energy to flow, because energy does flow, and when you want to, like.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Hold on to your money so tightly, and don't want to, like, let it go anywhere. You're damming up the energy flow.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And you're not allowing it to move through. And, you know, sometimes it's a trickle, but sometimes, you know, the big floods happen, and sometimes it slows down. But you've got to keep that… the other side open. It's got to just pass through. Otherwise.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It will… it will dry up.

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Victoria Davitashvili: That's exactly right. That is exactly spot on, right? And, you know, even if you think about… because words are spells, right? And what do we call en… what do we call money? We call it currency. It comes from the word current. What's current? It's energy. And what is energy?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Energy's constantly moving. Constant. It's constantly moving. That's why we're constantly changing, shaping, shifting, evolving, right? And it's beautiful, and it's wonderful, and we're always becoming. We never really arrive anywhere, right? And so, that's exactly spot on.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And this week, I was doing a really big happy dance inside. So, my… so I have, like, my free membership, and then I have my VIP tier. So my VIP tier…

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Victoria Davitashvili: They literally all have me on speed dial, it is so funny, because they all text me. Like, somebody was like, I haven't seen anybody in the WhatsApp group, like, what is going on? I'm like, they're all texting me separately. Like, this is what's going on. So that's… and it's fun, because I love it, and I adore everybody who's…

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Victoria Davitashvili: In there. So, I had 2

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Victoria Davitashvili: awesome stories this week. One, I had this one woman who reached out to me, and she said, Vicki.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I finally opened up… a Chase bank account.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Because I plan to open up a brokerage account.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And I plan to start investing.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Are you gonna sit with me and help me? I'm like, 100%, let's do this, let's do this. It took us 8 months to get her to this point, but she's there, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Another woman…

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Victoria Davitashvili: Again, super educated, super accomplished, so smart, like, I look at her and I'm like, oh my god, she's, like, amazing. She's a total badass.

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Victoria Davitashvili: She hasn't looked at her numbers since COVID.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Not at how her business is performing, not how her credit cards are… like, why? Because she was in…

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Victoria Davitashvili: Terrified fear of money.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And she basically said to her husband, like.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I relinquish all control about money.

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Victoria Davitashvili: you manage it all, and I will just be here to support you, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: And so he had been managing it, and I was like, okay, you?

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Victoria Davitashvili: have an avoidance, you're, like, an avoidance energy, like, let's look underneath that, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Fast forward, fast forward, when are you gonna have a money date? I'm like, you gotta start having money dates. Money dates is when you check in, you check in. And basically, all you do is you just, like, put your hand on your heart.

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Victoria Davitashvili: So if you're, like, super scared about, like, what might be happening with your money, your credit card bill is 3 times higher than you'd like, you're freaking out, market is down, I don't care.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I don't care.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Hand on the heart, you open up your account, and you just say, It's just information.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I'm gathering information.

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Victoria Davitashvili: It's neutral. Money is totally neutral. So I'm just gathering information. That's all I'm doing. That's it. Nice and calmly, right? And have that money day, okay. Wow, that credit card bill is $10,000.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Hmm… instead of, It's $1,000, and what do I… right? It's all about your energy around that. So finally.

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Victoria Davitashvili: We got up to… she got up the courage to have the money date. She was…

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Victoria Davitashvili: devastated, then not devastated, then devastated, then non-devastated, but I'm so proud of her because she finally faced her greatest fear.

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Victoria Davitashvili: She opened up the accounts, she looked at the accounts, she at least now knows what's happening with the accounts.

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Victoria Davitashvili: She had a money date with her husband?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Now that she's taking that breath, and she's freaking out about the numbers, I'm like, now let's make the math math. Let's make the math work.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And how can we… how might we get creative about what you need to do financially? That's where the financial literacy comes in, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Because you could be super creative with finance.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And so, I'm doing such a happy dance because we're facing our greatest fears as women, right?

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Victoria Davitashvili: But we're doing it. We're doing it in communion, in community, together.

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Victoria Davitashvili: We're holding up each other, we're holding space for one another, and everyone's like, oh my god, I'm in just the baddest shape! We commiserate together, right? And we're like, that's it, just go for it, right? And we support one another. We don't judge each other, right? And we create all this love and support.

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Victoria Davitashvili: together. And so… This feels… Really meaningful to me.

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Victoria Davitashvili: It's important to me.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And I want to touch as many lives as I possibly humanly can.

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Victoria Davitashvili: with this message.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I love it. And I really do love your community. It's… it's… It's a very special space.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And it… it's…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It allows us to just show up as we are with all of our garbage, as we all have garbage.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And the… I think the… the garbage that we bring around money or with money, even if we have a lot of money.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I mean, there are people that have quite a bit of money, but they're still, like, their mind is, like.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Tomorrow, it's all gonna disappear.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I…

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Victoria Davitashvili: That's that scarcity, that's that scarcity, right? Scarcity comes from usually your childhood, and the inconsistency that you may have experienced with money, right? I have a lot of clients where

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Victoria Davitashvili: It was feast or famine.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: There was, a divorce.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And the divorce created a story around money, the inconsistency. So, a lot of times, that scarcity does come from

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Victoria Davitashvili: you know, our childhood and the things that have happened in our childhood, or the stories that we heard in our childhood. Like, I have a client where she grew up in a super, super wealthy household.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And yet, like, they would spend all this money on going out.

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Victoria Davitashvili: And yet, if she needed to buy a dress, they would be like, no, borrow your best friend's dress. And so there was this inconsistency in the child's mind when she was a kid, like, wait a minute, I thought we had money, but we don't have money, and you're making me, like, be so embarrassed?

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Victoria Davitashvili: Like, I have to beg and borrow somebody else's dress, like, why can't you buy me a dress? So these types of inconsistencies create horrible scarcity in our bodies, and the body keeps the score. So that's why you have to see those stories, so that you can transmute those stories.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And so many of us don't even recognize that we have those stories.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Hmm.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You know, especially people that grew up in, you know, having enough.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: There are those sorts of stories that…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: We were all told, and we all have our…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Nobody gets through childhood without being traumatized. I have lots of kids, and I traumatize them all. I own it.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I love them dearly, but…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's just like, you know, you're young when you have kids. That wasn't my excuse with my last three, but because I was old when I had them, I should have known better. I did do a better job with them.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But, you know, it's… there's no shame in it, is, I guess, what I'm trying to say is, you know, we all have these stories that we bring along, and…

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You know, you may think you're doing just fine, and you may be denying… in denial about how fine you're doing. Come join us!

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You don't have to pretend in there. It's just like, yep, we're all there.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: We're with you.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: We gotcha

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: So… Where can people find you?

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Victoria Davitashvili: So, you can find me in my school community, so if you're a member of school.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Come to Wealthy and Unstoppable Circle, you will find Wealthy and Unstoppable.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I would love to have you join us. So, we have 3 different tiers, and my genuine mission is such that if you join the free tier, and you're just in there.

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Victoria Davitashvili: you're still getting, like, enormous value. Like, I don't skimp, I don't hold back.

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Victoria Davitashvili: I share and I give it my all, because to me.

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Victoria Davitashvili: It's less about… I mean, this is gonna be ironic, but it's less about money, it's about… it's more about impact.

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Victoria Davitashvili: That I get to create in this world. So, join us. It's free, right? And then, if you'd like, we also have a book club. I make it so affordable. It's $27 a month. Right now, we're…

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Victoria Davitashvili: reading, Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill. It is so brilliant. Every single day, I'm, like, mind blown. I take photographs, I share some of the things that really strike me.

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Victoria Davitashvili: in the community, but obviously with the book club, we go a lot deeper, and we study, and we really acknowledge, and we… we go deeper. So, we have the book club, so if you're, like, a bookworm, and you want just community around reading books together, then join the book club, that's fine. We also have the VIP level. Again, I make it so affordable at $47 a month.

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Victoria Davitashvili: Because I want as many people getting access to this type of community and this type of work, so that we can do it together. So, in the circle, we go deeper, so we do mindset, we do energetics. We also do financial literacy, learning about the different asset classes, learning about dividend strategies, learning about

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Victoria Davitashvili: You're gonna be home.

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Victoria Davitashvili: You're gonna be held, you're gonna be… you're gonna belong, and you're gonna learn and expand, because we're here as humans to expand our vessels, to have these expansive experiences, and if I can create one more

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Victoria Davitashvili: Abundant female financial badass who then starts taking her money and donating it to causes, and

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Victoria Davitashvili: creates a business, and then creates jobs, I mean, like, think of all the amazing ripple effects we get to create all together, and that's what I want, and I don't care what level you join us at, I just want you there.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I love that. Thank you so much for joining us, Vicki. This has been great.

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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: One of my favorite topics.

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