Alaya helps her clients cease the struggle and pain, and instead experience lasting change, for 40+ years. She is an integrative therapist, Internationally Board, Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Holistic Life Coach, Neuroscience and neurolinguistic programming practitioner NLP, and more.? And also, the founder, executive Director of the 501(c)(3) nonprofit Keeping All Women Safe K.A.W.S.
She helps with challenged pregnancies and infertility, sports performance, including golf, teaches skills for right relationship with the mind, and nervous system regulation. With a lifetime of experience, expertise, and my own inspiring journey, the interweaving of secret wisdom and modern science, my clients come to self-actualize and achieve their goals for clarity, enhanced wellness, and success.
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Hello. Greetings. Hi.
It's very nice to have you doing good.
How are you?
Where are you located?
I'm in Idaho.
You know Preston ID.
Is it north or South?
Never see the movie Napoleon Dynamite.
Just silly little cult.
But it was filmed here.
Because I was in North Idaho several months of last year.
I was in Corda Lane.
It's beautiful up there.
It's very congested, it's would numb and many things about it were not right for me.
It's now Sandpoint and hour N was wonderful for me.
I love it and I'm still on some wait lists for.
Some condos up there in Sandpoint, I probably would return.
When my name comes up, if I'm not somewhere else by then.
Where are you now?
I'm in Ashland OR?
Yeah, Southern Oregon. So I moved here 21 years ago.
And I've left three times.
And I returned in the fall this past fall.
After being in Idaho visiting Montana, then Florida.
For a length of time and then visiting western North Carolina, then I got an offer back here and I decided to come back for that.
So I'm here for now, but I don't see spending the rest of my life.
Even though I've spent many, many years here.
It has changed like many places.
Mary, as I've heard, are not.
Changing for the better the the.
A lot of drug problems and stuff.
Well, there's a lot of drug problems everywhere.
Even small towns like in Montana.
But also you know, there's just the shifting where COVID brought this here wasn't just COVID, it was the fire.
Years we have we have a lot of fires every summer. It's terrifying. And two years ago it wiped out 1500 homes, was out of control.
And so it's a very scary place, and depending on the fire situation, the airs can be very toxic in the summer.
So that certainly was not the case, even up to a few years.
Ago we had clear.
Air in the summer and you had a great time, right?
But the fear of the fire danger is overwhelming to a lot of people, especially now that there was such a giant one and every summer like we have, we all have these notices on our phones and it's always going off vegetation, fire structure, fire, vegetation.
Fire structure fire.
So we just hope that they get there in time, right?
It's a hard way to live there.
I know that there are natural disasters that go on everywhere I've been in them.
But fire is not a favorite of mine.
Yeah, I really appreciate that.
Yeah, and very toxic air is not a favorite of mine, but I never got down to the southern part of Idaho to check it out.
Is it a big?
Is it a big city or smaller or?
Really tiny just.
Maybe I don't know. 10,000 people in my town, maybe 10 it. It's probably more like 5000 in Preston and proper. And then the little outliers have a couple 1000.
What's the closest larger place?
Well, there's Pocatello to the north and there's Logan to the South.
Logan's is in Utah.
We're right on the border.
Oh, I see.
With Utah, so in fact, Franklin, which is the border town, was the first town in Idaho that was settled.
But it's heavily Mormon.
So you say that does that mean that you're not Mormon?
So how is that for you?
They're just, you know, country people that want to.
They're into homesteading and growing stuff and.
They're conservative survivalist type people and.
Like I was kind.
Of going down that path for a long.
Time I've, I've.
Shifted towards you know, the whole EU world order thing is it is it.
It's a take on the new World order which I
I have my own thoughts about.
Not particularly fondly.
And it's just it's my attempt.
To push back against.
What I perceive as people trying to enslave us.
People, people or government systems.
But I think I think.
The government systems are trying to enslave the people, yeah.
But I think the people are pushing back and there's big movements happening.
It's subtle, but the change is already in place.
I think COVID.
It was a terrible thing, but in some ways it was a really good.
Thing because it brought to light.
All of the stuff.
That's going on.
In the world and it.
Shared shone a great light on the medical industrial complex which benefited greatly from that.
That thing, and it just made.
It it made everybody so aware that you can't really trust.
Even your doctor.
Because they don't know and and I think it opened the opportunity for coaches and and people that have found solutions to come forward and.
Say, hey, look at this.
And that's what my podcast is really all about is helping people get their message out to show what what they're doing to to help other people.
See the light but find solutions to problems that they have that they used to go to, like the big institutions to.
Did you go to Idaho when the pandemic started?
Or have you've been there for years?
I've been here for years.
I moved here, my husband.
Was a truck driver.
And he drove through here and he.
Said, oh, you would love it there.
And he was right.
So we moved here and I raised my kids.
Three of my kids.
I have five kids.
I raised three of them here.
My kids is a lot.
It is, but I had him over, you know.
A lot of.
40 years so or 20 years there's.
I have a 40.
Year old daughter and a 19 year old.
Daughter and three sons in between.
Idaho is repopulating the country for sure.
Rates a lot of people with a lot of child.
Yeah, but there's a lot of places where people don't have any kids.
I have two sisters and they don't have any children.
Had all the children for them, yeah.
When I was in Idaho, I met many families.
That had 10/11/12 kids, 40 grandchildren, just massive amount.
Yeah, but I found for myself.
I did go there because of the pandemic and because of what was going on here.
I found that because one of my primary specializations is hypnotherapy.
I was told multiple times that my work was the Avenue of Satan.
So it was very hard for me to get clientele.
Having a website that has multiple different therapeutic and coaching approaches as soon as they saw that word.
They were not.
They were not going for it.
You know, they would tell me they had 40 years training from their church.
And they had, of course, misperceptions about what hypnosis and hypnotherapy is like.
A lot of people in the general public.
But it was definitely a deterrent for me to be able to support myself.
So I finally realized it wasn't changing and I left.
To do you do most of your stuff online.
I do, although I also see people in office.
I have an office that I contract by the hour.
I can see people in office if they have bad Internet or they just have a lot of noisy children in the background, but online is just as potent and just as safe.
There's no reason not to do it online.
I've been seeing clients all over the Globe online way back when we use Skype.
Long time ago, right?
Right.
So most people.
Are fine with online, but I do I have two clients right now that I'm seeing in office.
For the two reasons I mentioned, I did one time not long ago, few months ago, have a young autistic adult want to see me in office.
Also, I would make that exception.
Welcome to EU World Order Showcase podcast. Today we're talking to Alaya Kitani and she's going to share with us what it is she does.
Hi, Jill. Good to see.
You good to see you too.
So what do you do?
I I consider myself a change agent and that means I use a number of different integrative therapeutic approaches and coaching approaches to help people create the lasting change that they need.
So you know, we all try to use.
Willpower, and it brings frustration.
We keep trying all different ways to change habits, change how we eat, change our life, change our relationships.
Perhaps our life is unfulfilling.
Perhaps we have behaviors that we don't even understand.
I can help create the life that brings the solutions that brings the successes and that brings the change that people need in a number of different ways.
I've been seeing people for over 40 years, so I have a lot of advanced specializations.
I have people I've trained with the latest groundbreaking trauma modalities and organizations.
Challenge pregnancies and fertility, of course, stress and anxiety.
I've worked with many, many people.
Birth traumas? Really.
Just about anyone who realizes you know.
My mind is driving me crazy.
My relationship is not as happy as I want.
I'm feeling unfulfilled in my life and I don't understand why or I'm at a crossroads and I need clarity.
I'm also at a.
So I teach mind mastery skills.
In other words, right relationship with the mind is essential in this life in order to navigate skillfully as well as nervous system regulation, everyone needs to know what are the skills and the tools I can apply simply.
When I'm starting to feel super stressed, overwhelmed, shocked, or dysregulated due to trauma.
So that's how I work with people. I'm also the founder and Executive director of a 501C3 nonprofit called Keeping All Women Safe.
I've been working for five years with the local police chief and the District Attorney in regards to not only education and awareness of the public about the actual inequality and lack of safety for women.
Everywhere still but legislative, legislative and system reform, the system is still stacked against women.
In many ways, this is a very fierce passion for me.
That's really exciting.
So how do you how do?
You work with that, do you?
How does that look?
Are you referring to the nonprofit?
Do you give workshops?
I've done a number of events both online and in the community where I'm located right now.
I also it became very, very public.
I think it was on the front page of the paper and the news reporters were always searching for me when.
Something a violation occurred against a woman that was serious. I've for five years I had non-stop women coming to me, contacting me through the nonprofit for help with their situation. Perhaps they reported.
It to the.
Police and they didn't.
Feel satisfied with that.
Perhaps they were afraid to report it to the police because I was a social worker for 30 years.
I know a lot of the heads of the different organization.
No matter where I am, I I don't feel I feel that these department directors are very approachable and I can help people get to the resources that they need.
People also would tell me.
About certain predators that they've been identifying or having trouble with in town and then other women would contact.
Me to say.
Has anybody been talking about this guy or that guy?
And I say people would because I've changed my positioning with the nonprofit. The amount of contact that was coming in was 24/7.
My mission was to increase awareness of the community and empower others not for everyone to be coming to me, so I'm primarily focused on legislative and system reform.
For example, I'm presently in Oregon.
There is no law in Oregon where trauma.
Is considered an actual physical injury when.
Violators are assigned charges.
You have to go to civil court to include trauma in damages.
I feel that needs to change because in many states, actually.
The violator or the accused violator, it's considered if that individual has trauma or childhood trauma and perpetrating the crime.
However, it's not considered when charges are assigned, such as trauma should be included in a degree of felony or degree of misdemeanor because we learned that trauma is an actual physical injury to the brain.
It changes the brain, so this is one thing. It changes everything. Yeah. So this is this is 1/1 aspect that I'm primarily focused on at this time.
It changes your whole body.
With the non trusted with my private practice I work with people in many different experiencing many different challenges.
For the most part they're high functioning individuals.
They can show up on time every time and they will practice what I share with them between sessions. They're 100%.
Invested and committed to their own growth.
And so we partner.
In session work for them to reach the successes that.
They're looking for.
Lots of times people have been to all kinds of other things.
When they get to me, they've been to talk therapy.
They loved their therapist, but they didn't walk away with the skills they.
Needed or the.
Actual shifts, they'll experience the shifts in real time with me, and then as they practice.
More between sessions.
I say that the work I do is a interweaving of modern science because I use hypnotherapy.
I use neuroscience.
I use Neurolinguistic programming and as I say, the latest groundbreaking trauma modalities as well as sacred wisdom.
As well as insights that are unique from my own inspirational life journey considered inspirational because I have been through several catastrophic events that most people would not have survived, it was extremely challenging and I know from the inside out what it takes to get through.
And thrive again after big stuff happens.
So how would how would somebody?
Know if they were a candidate.
For working with you.
They just know they need to change and they're tired of trying to figure it out themselves, and they're frustrated trying to use their own different methods and they can schedule a free phone consultation with me right on my website and we can talk.
But there's a lot of information on my website as well.
That helps people, so.
What would you say your number one struggle?
With your, the entrepreneurial side of your business is.
For me, there's a frustration with the amount of technology that is now required.
I think being able to meet you where you are right here.
I like you.
I wish I had known you when I was in Idaho.
I would have come down and seen you.
Right.
It's great that we're connecting now.
That part I love, but the amount.
Of technology and the amount of capital that's required for all the back end coding of the website, constant SEO constant.
All these different forms of marketing list to me.
Has become overly complex and.
That's that's my biggest struggle.
I hear you with that.
Yeah, it's just.
Every month it's something out.
It's it's true.
It's so much and and then the expense of joining we met through a, a group that can be free, but I'm part of another one that's.
Enormously expensive. It's outrageously expensive.
I renewed this year because I feel that it has potential to be beneficial and it's a great group of people in another location.
I'm someone who doesn't like being just stuck in one small corner of the world.
I like to reach out.
I like to have connections and friends everywhere.
I like to pick up and move and go other places.
I've lived a very, very unconventional life and that may be why.
People think I'm a lot younger than I am and it may be why I have as much vitality as I have for the number of my age.
I've never lived according to how I was supposed to live because my age was whatever it was, but I don't like feeling like here.
I am in a small town and nobody.
Nobody exists outside of here.
Technology is wonderful for that.
It's just the aspect of in order for people to find me in order to make money, all these things have to happen behind the scenes.
That is very expensive and as you say, it's always something.
It's always something.
Just what do you think you've got?
It figured out they tweak something like.
And, you know, I'm one who I feel that technology has its place, but I, you know, I have my finger on the tab of anxiety in our world, and there are more and more who does not have anxiety right now.
Everyone is anxious.
Everyone is moving at a pace that's actually not natural, and who and what is dictating that pace.
Technology at any given moment, our phone can ring.
There can be a text.
There can be a message, there can be a Instagram, there can be every kind of everything, and we're all trying to integrate.
All of that simultaneously and respond.
It's too much.
I don't like it.
I'm going to return.
When you go in the.
Grocery store and the Amber Alert goes off and the whole building is like.
Yeah, it you can feel the vibration in there.
It just changes until the sound goes away.
Yeah, never mind the ever constant cancer diagnosis that are coming, right, that's a very complex issue.
I've had oncologists send their patients to me and they've told their they've told these women that they actually believe that they.
Acquired the breast cancer from keeping their phone in their bra, so as much as people don't want to believe that that EMF some harmful, I'm here to tell you I got a meter and my meter goes berserk in front of my laptop, right?
So I'm trying to figure out what to do with that because I'm in front of it now every day for so long.
Right.
So keeping restoring balance to our lives needs to be a focus.
It needs to be a focus because technology is dictating our pace, our presence, our location, our manner and it's creating intense anxiety everywhere.
It's speeding up too many people and it's.
I wonder what the effect is going to be on the young kids that are coming up right now because.
They have never known there are a lot of people that are in their 20s that have never known a time when there weren't cell phones.
Right.
And our microwaves, we don't have a microwave in our house.
Right.
They're on their phone or their or their tablet instead.
Of a book.
Right, I have a I have a young friend who's children, at least one of them that I've seen always on her phone.
Right.
Screen addiction is real, right?
It's sending those chemicals neurochemicals are going crazy.
Just like cocaine.
Right.
What about taking children to the library?
Letting them pick out books according to their interest, letting them feel the actual paper of the book.
Right.
I'm a big scanner.
I absorb enormous amounts of information.
I myself can get into the screen instead of an actual book, but there's something special about that.
So when I was a social worker.
We were sent to all kinds of training and then one of them there was a documentary, documentary film and three little boys were followed from elementary school all the way up to applying for college.
One was on an island.
That he and his friends after school would go out and just play with the branches and the rocks and they make forts and they creep create their own imaginary world and they.
One little boy lived in suburbia, and after school he would go up to his father's den and be on the computer all afternoon. Another little boy lived in the ghetto and he was out on the streets after school.
They followed them through high school and applying for college.
Which little boy do you think got into the best Ivy League colleges and why?
The one that ran around and played with sticks and rocks because they have the biggest imaginations, and they're probably the ones that can look.
At words and pictures appear.
Sure, exactly. And they were able to develop out-of-the-box thinking and relational skills.
Who do you think was next?
Probably the kid.
On the streets.
Well then, because he had to learn relational skills for survival.
The worst kid.
Up on that computer all, even though you know they're playing these video games where they have to make decisions and there's danger.
It's the one unlock.
On the computer.
And there's all these things going on.
He did not develop the brain that is considered optimal to navigate this life skillfully.
And I know it's a struggle.
I talk to parents every day.
It's difficult for them to get their kids off the screens, right?
School requires it.
However, when we have children, I know this is tough.
I raised three kids myself.
We don't just bring them into the world and let them go.
We need to prepare them.
Right.
And there's different views as to what makes a child more prepared than another, right from the homesteaders to the high tech giants, there's a big range there of of what we feel is best.
I just see the results of it.
I get the people contacting me who are having all kinds of medical diagnosis.
I've trained with the most popular hospital based program in the country for cancer clients that uses hypnosis.
I see the impact.
Of these people's lives with medical diagnosis, with anxiety, with inability to sleep, with relationships breaking up with.
Just a lack.
Of fulfillment, a sense of despair and despondency.
That's got to tell us something about this world that we're creating and and the direction it's going.
But even the big ones.
Elon Musk, for one.
I know he's a very controversial figure, is trying to warn people about the dangers in the direction we're going, and the pace to slow down.
It's not happening.
Right.
Is happening though, and that's really the.
Whole point of.
My podcast is that there are people out there doing things.
To change the trajectory, have trouble with that word.
And it's a.
It's a subtle shift.
But more and more people are.
Stepping up and saying, hey, I figured this problem out.
I'm ready to help other people take that next step.
They're solving problems that they've solved for themselves.
They're offering to help other people solve that same problem.
And there are a lot of people that are.
You know struggling.
With anxiety and stress and cancer and.
Irritable bowel syndrome?
It's just like the list is endless.
Of of people that have individual problems, most of them are.
Like if it's the holistic.
Of course I'm talking about the pay.
Everybody always helps.
I'm talking about the pace of technology slowing down.
That's not slowing down, it's that individuals are coming, are finding and creating their own routes, their own methods, their own solutions to how to adapt.
Oh, it's not.
And how much to engage in finding that balance within themselves, that's essential.
I think that's I think that's essential too.
And I think it's a really good thing and I'm I'm not so sure that this whole AI thing isn't going to backfire horribly because.
On some level, it takes out the human element.
The more people use it.
The more you're going to start getting circular references.
It's going to be referencing itself.
Because it it just.
It's a program that goes out and scours to get information and.
Brings it back to you.
But as it generates more and more of this information, which isn't accurate.
Oftentimes it says right on it on the site on ChatGPT. This is not. Don't take this as the gospel truth, but people do, and then they start sharing what Chatgpt has said. And the more that gets out there, the more.
It's going to start.
Finding its own answers and bringing it back so that it's.
Just diluting the pool.
Right.
Right.
So even the big tech giants are expressing control fears and concerns about the dangers of what can happen as AI starts to replace the position of human beings humanity.
But they still continue with it.
We also listened to a talk by a an attorney who said that there's going to be.
Legal issues with liability of quoting, presenting certain information, and the AI programs are exempt.
From any liability, it's going to be on the individuals who give the information, give the answers and it's incorrect.
So there's a whole host of complexities that are involved with the ultimate.
Replacing humans as more powerful.
But look, we've seen this and everything else in science fiction movies, which are a form of prophecy.
We've already seen this happen, and humans just love to rush to their own destruction.
Thankfully, it's not everyone, right, so there will always be that subset.
That see what's going on and already.
Look, I've, I've been watching, you know, Star Trek from day one and all.
The way up.
I use the analogies in my work because there's a lot of wisdom in these in these science fiction movies.
But when you go and you see the heck Steven Spielberg put out one several years ago, maybe 10 years ago.
I forget the name of.
But it showed the world destroyed and everyone living through their goggles in a virtual reality that was their life.
Everyone just sitting around with this, right?
I watched this movie and I said this is a prophecy.
This is something.
It doesn't mean he knows, but he's being used to bring this message.
Are we going to open our eyes and see it or not?
I call it living with the lights on.
It's like anything in our life.
Knowledge is power by walk into a room.
That's pitch black.
I'm gonna crash into furniture.
I'm going to trip over something.
I'm going to hear a little sound and be terrified.
But if I have the lights on, I can see and act appropriately and respond in a way that is in balance and correct for our own well-being and the well-being of others.
Fortunately, a lot of people do like to be followers.
Rather, you know it.
It can be overwhelming again with the pace and the complexity of what's what goes on in our world and our individual lives.
That kind of goes full circle to what you're doing, which is helping people.
Get a handle on.
On dealing with the the complexities of life in a way that they can focus and have stillness and and be human.
Instead of being.
Interconnected on the computer.
Yeah, and actually I help people be the superhuman that we actually are.
Our design is designed with unlimited possibilities and potential and the limitations that our world tries to put on us.
Are a lie.
How do I know this?
Because what I have lived through in my life, I've had four different restarts after extreme injury and catastrophic events.
30 years ago I was told that I would be in a wheelchair after a serious car crash and I would never be out of pain.
Every medical professional told me there was no hope.
I could stand up for you.
Now I'm not even close to any of that.
And while I heard what they were all saying, and I was afraid, and I was in pain inside myself, I was saying.
Ohh really watch this because I.
And the truth of our blueprint and our blueprint has the power and the ability to access whatever is needed for healing whatever is needed in our life.
We weren't given an imagination for worst case scenarios, we were given an imagination for the best.
Or the blessing to ourselves and to others.
And that's what I help clients to return to that place within themselves.
We're all clarity lies.
All wisdom lies.
All empowerment, lies.
All truth lies for them.
So when people come to me for their miracle.
Most of the time they get it.
Because the miracle is in each and every one of us.
And I've lived that.
So this isn't just a belief.
I've seen it happen time and time again too, and there's real science behind it.
Right.
There are people out there that are measuring these things and saying.
It is measurable.
And so you know, using how the body is designed with neuroscience, using how the brain communicates with hypnotherapy and neurolinguistic programming, all these things endorse, like hypnotherapy is not an alternative structure.
Over 60 years ago was approved by the American Medical Association, American Psychiatric Association.
Endorsed by the mayor.
Clinic, how we access layers of our brain, just like trauma now known that trauma is held both in the mid brain.
It's associated with our visual gaze and direction, and it's held somatically in our body.
These are facts, and knowing this, we can then work with it in a way where we become.
We become aware and we have skills in order to navigate, so that in our life, should we get dysregulated by some type of subconscious traumatic stimulation, we are aware of it and we can apply the skills that we have, which gives us a sense of confidence and empowerment in our life, and we're no longer a victim.
Amen, sister. Amen.
So, Leo, how can people get in touch with you and find out more?
About your amazing work.
Yeah. Thank you for asking. So my website isalchemizechange.com and alchemize, you may know alchemize is an ancient process of taking the dross of metal and bringing it into the highly refined gold state into gold. So Alchemize is, I'm sure will attach something here that spells it.
For the folks, Alchemize, change.com and right on my homepage, towards the top is a button that says free console so someone can click that button and it takes them to a schedule where they can schedule a phone call for me free.
No obligation they can talk about what they're experiencing and what they would like to change.
And we can see.
What would be the best way to work together to help them in their?
That sounds like an amazing offer and I hope my whole audience will take you up on that.
And it's important for them to know it doesn't matter where you are.
I work with people all over the globe, working through the screen is absolutely potent, as powerful as in person.
Although wherever I'm located at the time I usually am able to see people in person as well, but location should not be a limitation for anyone.
The screen has worked very successfully for well.
I've seen people for over 40 years.
I've used the screen for.
For 20 so very, very successful work.
And that's because people come ready and.
Look, 70 years of unique insight and experience and expertise joins that individual and what they need for themselves.
I care deeply.
I have tremendous compassion and really, really want people to be able to live a life that is healthy.
And vibrant and successful in the ways that are important to them.
And not only does it help that individual.
But there's a ripple effect.
With their families, with their kids, with their parents, it just their communities.
It just keeps moving out.
Their ancestors, we know that if trauma is now handed down in the DNA, while we also know through epigenetics, DNA is not the absolute that our thoughts and beliefs override our DNA.
But if if.
Trauma can be passed down to us.
It's still can healing, so can healing, yes.
Thank you so much for joining me today, Elia.
It's been my pleasure getting.
To chat with you.
You're so welcome.
Good to know you, Jill.