How to Reprogram Your Mind and Take Control of Your Life with Nathan Francis

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Hi and welcome to the World order, showcase. Podcast I'm your host, Jill Hart. And with us today is Nathan Francis Nathan helps young people take back control of their minds through the subconscious mind pathway. He believes everything else falls into place. Once you help people become consciously aware of why they're doing the things they're doing. Welcome to the show, Nathan. It's really great to have you here.

2

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hello, Jill, thank you for having me. I'm I'm glad I I reached out to you in a podcast. Group of 1.2 million people, or whatever is in there. So I'm glad we could connect this way.

3

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And you're all the way in Australia, and I'm over here in the United States. So we're like time traveling. And we had to coordinate everything in order to make it work.

4

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: We did. I'm glad we did so. Thank you for having me. It's a very, it's a pleasure to be here. It's a really awesome podcast that you have. So I hope a few of my listeners can subscribe to you. And yeah, thank you very much. Having me.

5

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, thank you. And you are the host of breaking the breaking free podcast which.

6

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I am.

7

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Excited to share with people, too.

8

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So tell us your story. How'd you get started.

9

10

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that would, you know, drink, party, sleep around and do all those things that young men do. And for me it got to a point where

11

12

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I started taking control of my health and and things started changing. I started changing. And for me.

13

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I knew I always had a voice. I knew I always had skills that I could offer, because prior to that, too, I was a teacher, and and I love working kids. So I always had a passion for helping people. I just was doing it in a different way.

14

15

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: just put it out there to the universe. Put it out there to spirit. Put it out there to God. Put it out there to Jesus, whatever your audience believe, and just let that handle itself. So 12 h later, I'm sitting on a plastic fold out table. I was drunk. I was high. I was all those things, and

16

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: there were 3 young girls sitting on the opposite side of the table, and I was just doing my thing, as I normally would at that time of the morning, and I fell through that table, and I hit the ground hard, and for me that was a rock bottom. It was a moment of are you going to continue down this path, or are you going to do something else?

17

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And I remember going to bed that night, and I woke up 3 or 4 h later, and my mentor now had just done an interview, a podcast with another buddy of mine as well, and he was talking about self-sabotage, the subconscious mind pathway and all this stuff. And I was like, Oh, my God! I do all this.

18

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I I have negative thoughts, I I do things, and then it happens. And I'm like, why did I just do that? Why do I treat women and people this certain way like it just resonated with me? Anyway, I got some free advice and and different things happened. And from this it was about December.

19

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah, probably about this time, 3 years ago, he launched the coaching school. When this podcast goes up, it will be 3 years since I actually started it. So yeah. And from there I learned about the subconscious. I learned about my own journey, one of my own healing health.

20

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: well-being journey. And I was like, Wow, these are the things I was doing.

21

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: These are the things I could be doing. These are the dreams that I've had. This is sort of how you can navigate to get. There was all about stripping back my self worth, my self Love myself, care. I always had Self-love, but it was in a different way which we can get to, and for me it was.

22

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It was letting go of the old to bring in the new, and I was letting go of old patterns, old people, old towns, old all this stuff

23

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to be like, Wow, there's a whole new world out there.

24

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And for me to be able to speak on platforms and host my own. Podcast if you hadn't told me this 4 years ago, I'd have said, Yeah, I've got the potential.

25

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But actioning that potential. Well, that was that was the biggest flip I had a mentor say something in me that I wasn't able to say myself

26

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: at that point. But once I saw that potential and saw it in me. It opened up a whole new world in terms of I can see other people's potential. I can see potential in everyone here, and we all have the ability to do some pretty cool stuff.

27

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But our own programming, our own fears, our own worries, our own traumas. All this stuff sort of just becomes this big ball of of energy, of oh, it's just easy to stay comfortable. It's easier to not put myself out there, and it's easier to sort of live this life of comfort

28

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: rather than expand and explore and evolve and and transform. So that's basically my story. In a 2 min, 3 min. Spiel, but yeah, there's a lot more layers to it. But for me it was falling through. That table was the was the was the catalyst, for where I am now, and and what I'm doing now. If it wasn't for that table well, it would have happened another way. I feel like I was always supposed to do this? So yeah.

29

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: are they.

30

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Love the metaphor, though

31

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the falling through the table, or really you did hit rock bottom.

32

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I did.

33

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: There was.

34

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: No no doubt about it.

35

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I have kind of a similar

36

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: story in a way that when I

37

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I have been embracing sobriety for the last over a year now.

38

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And it was just, you know, I I just decided one day, I'm

39

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: this isn't making me happy. It's not anything that really

40

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: goes with what I want to do in the world.

41

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And I just decided to stop

42

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and had a really cool experience with the hawk, which I'll tell you about another time, because I've told the listeners about it a million times.

43

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: But

44

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I I never. I never looked back. It just was like, okay, that that chapter is closed. We're moving on.

45

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And I think you can only do those kinds of things

46

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: when you are able to take

47

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: control of your thoughts, and how your your conscious mind is working in order to let your subconscious mind

48

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: move out of old patterns. What are your thoughts on that.

49

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah, 1, 100, like I had the programming of. I watched a lot of American pie growing up. So I often talk a lot about stiff luck, Charlie Sheen, Joey, and friends, so you could sort of see the programming I had. You know they had the Charlie Sheen had the beach house. He had the. He had the the hot tub, he had, the the women around and the cigars, and it's like, well, that was

50

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: on the TV for a young guy like me watching that going. Well, that's sort of being a king like he's got the women. He's got the house. He's got the money. He's got fame. He's got all this stuff.

51

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and then they portray Alan in the show. He has. The family has the son, but he's broke, and he's poor, and he's lonely, and he's miserable. So they they really paint that picture of that lifestyle as something to sort of hold on to and for me with stifler as well, you know. You watch American pie. Over and over and over again. The subconscious mind works on repetition. It's like going to the gym. Do you want to build strength?

52

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Need to go to the gym 3 to 4 times a week and consistently go and over, Tommy, build strength with the mind. It's the same thing. If you're watching American pie.

53

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you're watching friends. You're watching 2 and a half men. And you're watching all these

54

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: shows based on these guys being portrayed as kings, but treating a women a certain way to get safety amongst the group. Well, for me, I went. Well, I'm playing that card. I'm playing the role of stifler, and Joey and Charlie in my own way, because that's safe. He has friends, he has women.

55

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I want friends. I want women. So I'm just going to go and automatically download that program on a revenue level and play that card. And I played that card till I was 26

56

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: got to 26, I was like, well, I don't have.

57

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I don't have the beach house.

58

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I don't have the women, because in reality women don't like being treated like that, and I had to go on that journey to find that out, and it took me to that moment of that table to be like? Well.

59

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: they don't, because I didn't have what they had. And it's like, well.

60

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: what are they trying to do here? Because I did that program, and it didn't work for me. So it was a matter of

61

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: not listening to music in the same sort of way. A lot of the rap music and the music out there today is very, very sexual. If you're listening to that on a repetitive level, then you're gonna act out that programming inside that that music. So I was like, well, if they're programming me through the TV, through the music, through everything that I'm currently consuming.

62

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Well, I need to. I need to take my earphones out. I need to turn the TV off. I need to turn these things off and find some empowering content. How do you do that? Well, there's music out there that's very empowering. It's independent. It ain't mainstream, but it's out there. So I might listen to music like that. I might listen to some sound healing to try and tune into the frequency of where I want to be on a repetitive level. 5, 2 8 Hertz. I'm like, I'm gonna listen to this

63

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and just relax my mind and calm my nervous system down so that I can figure out what's true to me.

64

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Is that behavior true to me? Or was that put there by a TV program that I thought was safe?

65

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And it was that navigating journey of what was true to me, and what was someone else's belief, or someone else's

66

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: program.

67

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to figure out how I can navigate my own journey. And for me it it takes time you're not going to build

68

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the kingdom in in one or 2 months. This is going to take time, because for me that American pie friends, 2 and a half men programming had been there since I was 12, and for me, that's that was 14 years worth of programming. Now I was watching Porn when I was 8, 8 years old, so there's the other layer to it. So not only was I watching American pie 2 and a half men and friends. I was also watching Porn.

69

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: so I was watching Porn. So my programming of women was very

70

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: was very. You could say bad, you know, because

71

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: for me, cutting, cutting back the porn was hard work, because that was all I was used to for 20

72

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 20 years nearly. So that's a lot of programming to just

73

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: pull the rug out of.

74

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you know. And for people out there, you're gonna have moments where you where you're gonna go back because

75

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: this what you're used to it's what you're familiar, safe and comfortable in doing so, if you can

76

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: start off small and put baby steps in and say, Look, I'll give it a week. You get to the week. Well done, awesome. But then, as you keep moving, that resistance gets longer, and as that resistance gets longer you'll look back and go. Wow! I don't need that anymore.

77

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because look how much better my life is without that thing, whether it's porn. Whether it's alcohol, whether it's any of these things, your life will be better once that resistance gets longer and you'll realize, oh, wow! My life is better. I feel better. I I have control over my my mental health and my physical health more than when I had that thing. You'll notice the differences. Each time you'll go deeper and deeper and deeper each time you go back, and you'll figure out you'll understand you go. Oh, wow! Look!

78

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Look how much better. I look and feel, and for me it was just that resistance, getting longer and longer each time learning how to channel that energy into my life into my goals, into my dreams, has then enabled me to

79

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to speak about these things, to start the business, to start the podcast to write the book and do these things that I've done was understand that I had the power and the potential within me, and all I had to do was say it, because once you see it.

80

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: your your life changes forever. And that's how this subconscious mind works repetition

81

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and

82

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: subliminal messaging. There's things hidden inside your TV shows and movies that are there for a reason, and they are there to disempower you. You need to find things that empower you and there's plenty of those things. This podcast is one minds, one, they empower, they inspire. Listen to those stories, listen to those people on repetitive level. You'll eventually find your way through this

83

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: interesting system. We all currently live in.

84

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: What's your thoughts on social media

85

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in terms of.

86

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Social media is interesting because I had a really awesome piece of advice from someone, and and they said to me, become a creator, not a consumer.

87

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because when you consume you look at Tiktok, you look at Instagram. They have these reels right, and you got these young people. They're just flicking, and the next reel plays after the ones finished in instantly. So you're getting this dopamine hit.

88

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's not real dopamine. It's a technological electrical dopamine that's not

89

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: real. The real dopamine is building your testosterone, going to the gym and being the person that you want to be. That's natural dopamine getting out in nature. Getting out in the ocean is natural dopamine.

90

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's.

91

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Social media can be very harmful. You're talking.

92

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: About dopamine and serotonin.

93

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Correct.

94

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Serotonin is what you want. It's the sustainable good feeling, dopamine

95

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it. It hits you, and you have to have more. And you you have to have larger quantities of it in order to get the same feeling

96

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: where serotonin is. It's a maintainable

97

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: sort of high.

98

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm!

99

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But our youth of today won't even don't. They don't know what this is unless they're

100

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: conscious. And their families.

101

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you know, our youth of today are just mindlessly scrolling, not knowing

102

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the effects it's having on mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

103

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And for young kids they're exposing them

104

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to

105

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Emf

106

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and their their bodies. They're thin. Their skin is thinner, their bones aren't really developed

107

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: totally yet. And so that's impacting them in a greater way than it does an adult who consumes large amounts of screen time.

108

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Just kind of a.

109

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And I find

110

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: many people out there use that screen to distract themselves from what's really going on in their lives, to not go to that dark place to not go to that place of wherever it is. You know it's it's this stuff that that they've held on to for such a long time. It's in this box. They've left the box on on the shelf. It's time to put the screens down. Turn the screens off, walk over to that shelf, blow the dust off it, and open it up and step into your potential, because we all have the ability to do these things.

111

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Read a book.

112

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.

113

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: but then, action, this is another part of the subconscious mind, too. A lot of people will read those self-help books, but they won't action anything.

114

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, you have to do stuff. Nothing changes until you actually do something different.

115

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Correct action's a beautiful thing.

116

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It could start with just even your thoughts and breathing, and I can remember when I 1st learned how to meditate.

117

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Just like

118

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: 3 min was forever to me.

119

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Now I can sit down, and an hour and a half can go by, and I'm like. Oh.

120

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I I guess I need to stop and go do something.

121

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: This feels good.

122

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Meditating is awesome. People say they they can't meditate. Well, there's that many things going on inside their mind.

123

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Their mind's racing. It's having the ability to be able to just take those 3 deep breaths, and you'll find you'll be able to do it. But it's just taking that time to relax. People don't feel like they have time.

124

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You got plenty of time. What you do with it.

125

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: There's a quote about somebody who

126

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: who's a

127

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: a monk or something.

128

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Maybe it was the Dalai Lama that it was attributed to. But he's like, I've got a really busy day today. I better meditate for 4 h instead of 2.

129

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.

130

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's just getting

131

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: getting your mind in the right place. You're much more able to accomplish what you want to accomplish than

132

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: if your your mind's racing, and you're running around doing all the things.

133

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: But you're not really getting anything done.

134

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 100%. And

135

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the way this subconscious model works is that if getting things done is not a program or not a thing that you saw as a child. Then you won't get things done, because that's what you're used to. It works on repetition, as I said before, and it works on familiarity, comfortability, and finding safety amongst the tribe. If your your family circle, as you were growing up between the ages of 0 and 6, was full of alcohol and

136

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: violence and all these things that are out there. Now for kids. Then that's the program you're going to act out

137

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: when you grow up.

138

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because that's what you're used to. You're not used to any anything else. So something else comes in. Well.

139

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that's a very uncomfortable thing to be. People don't like being uncomfortable

140

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because

141

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: we're programmed to be comfortable. Look at the school system. We we look at everything out there that's out there. It's all about comfortability and not embracing the uncomfortability

142

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: we're forever seeking the comforts it needs to be flipped on and said we need to seek the uncomfortability, because in those uncomfortable moments are the chances and the changes you can make to grow

143

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and expand and evolve

144

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: rather than staying where you are and being comfortable, we came here to grow. We came here to evolve. We came here to learn.

145

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's what we came here to do.

146

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: For sure, for sure. I can remember the 1st time I had to get up in front of my class

147

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and and do a debate

148

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I was in.

149

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I think I was in 6th grade.

150

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I went homesick. I I just was like, I can't do this.

151

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: There's no way.

152

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And now, I have my own podcast I talk to people all the time. It's like

153

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I could talk in front of groups of thousands. It just doesn't bother me anymore. But it's that that

154

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: training of you have to be

155

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: put in uncomfortable positions. You have to just do it sometimes.

156

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and it does get easier.

157

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And I'll add to that story. I love what you just said, because my book and all my stuff was birthed from an inner child that I had inside the school system. Now the subconscious mind remembers everything but it. It puts these blocks and these barriers there to protect you. It wants to keep you safe

158

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: for me. I wanted to unpack Pandora's box, and.

159

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: like I had the intent and the action behind. I want to

160

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: explore my potential my capability. Now I remember being on a table 2 and a half years ago with an awesome kinesiologist, and she said, something happened to you when you were 6. Now, I went straight there and said, Yeah, I was playing on the floor with Lego, and my parents were in a

161

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: parent teacher, interview, and I was on the floor. And this teacher said, I used to write a lot of stories about mystical things, comic books, and I used to write a lot about being a hero here in Australia. The Afl. Is a very popular sport. I used to write about kicking goals after sirens, and and being that hero, that

162

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that yeah, being the hero. And this teacher said, Oh, we don't want Nathan writing this stuff anymore. He needs to write what everyone else is writing, and he and he needs to do the work everyone else is doing. And for me

163

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I downloaded that as a program as a 6 year old of well, my writing's not worthy. I'm not worthy.

164

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I'll conform, and I'll do that now for me. That blocked my writing ability, because that one person's perception or perspective stopped me from

165

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: doing it. So for me. I went back to that kid playing the Lego, and I just held him and said, Nathan, you can do and be anything that's 1 person's perception of who and what you can be. You can do and be anything. There's 6 billion people out here on the planet, Nathan.

166

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: There's gonna be

167

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: one person that will resonate with what you have to say. All right.

168

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: From that moment forward the next 6 weeks. I wrote my book.

169

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 3 months after that I started the podcast.

170

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 2 months after that, I was like, I'm Gonna launch A, website, I did those things

171

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: from that inner child that blocked

172

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: it was a safety block. And I went. I don't want to block this anymore.

173

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: So I went back to that child told him what he needed to hear in that moment, and told that teacher to to go jump. And I'm gonna do this thing.

174

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I'm gonna do it my way, and I'm gonna do it because I'm worthy of doing it and bang! It just shifted so much, because here I am. Now.

175

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah. And it really is just a matter of making a decision

176

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and embracing.

177

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: embracing who you were meant to be.

178

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: regardless of other people's opinions because they're just opinions, and

179

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you don't know what that woman was experiencing. She's probably not even still alive. At this point.

180

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I don't know.

181

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I know most of my teachers are gone.

182

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're just

183

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they're just in that age group that

184

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: th. Those people aren't around anymore. Not very many of them, anyway, but it's

185

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's recognizing that

186

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they had an opinion about something when you were 6 years old, and they probably had an ulterior motive. It probably wasn't about what you were writing so much as

187

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she was wanting everybody to conform to a certain standard, so that she wouldn't get in trouble.

188

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Correct.

189

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Most people are personally motivated

190

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in those situations. Well, in all situations. Really, it's like, if you're getting up and talking in front of a whole bunch of people. Most people want to know what's in it for them, and if it's not about them, then they

191

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: don't really care.

192

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah.

193

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: This.

194

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's kind of a cynical way of looking at things, but

195

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and then it gets back to what you were talking about about programming because we are fed stuff, especially these days.

196

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: that's designed to hit us

197

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: where we're vulnerable.

198

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: A AI and social media is really good at this. But even in the games kids play online, there's it's subliminal messaging. But it's it's on steroids these days.

199

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Okay.

200

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: your your phone listens to you when you're walking around talking, and it shows you ads about what you were talking about.

201

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Sometimes it shows you ads about what you were thinking about, and that terrifies me

202

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: personally.

203

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.

204

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I'm not sure how that.

205

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Thing, you know, and we talk a lot about this stuff, too. And and you know you could talk about who's behind it. And and then who's behind them and them and them them? But the thing is.

206

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: they'll get you if they can put you in that state, because they know they've proven it that if they can put you in fear, terror, panic, you will do and say anything and look at the last 4 years you had people lining up to do stuff that was probably not in their best interest, but they did it anyway, because they're in a fear, panic, and terror. If you can.

207

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And if you stood against that

208

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: man you were, you had to have really thick skin, and you had to be really strong.

209

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Try being 26

210

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and the

211

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: lifestyle I used to live that was going against the grain on many levels for me, and I would do it again in a heartbeat. Because

212

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: look at what's going on now. People are sick.

213

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Here you are!

214

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And for me I was just gonna add to the fear, panic, and terror. If you can bring yourself into a centered calm

215

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: place, you'll be able to make decisions

216

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: based on your own influence is not being influenced by all of these things. Now, if you look at how all this was orchestrated. It was orchestrated as soon as you walk into the school system, because you're conforming, you're complying, and you're looking up to an authority figure to rule you to guide you to boss you around, tell you what to do every day.

217

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Then you leave the school system, and then you're doing that in a job as well. So you are being told what to do every single day.

218

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: A lot of people out there don't know

219

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: themselves.

220

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: To to train you to become

221

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: not necessarily a robot, but to work

222

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in a in factories and in situations where you're told what to do, and you better just do it

223

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: because people who have the ability to think for themselves.

224

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they tend to become unemployable.

225

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do.

226

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And but the people and the kids that think for themselves inside the school system, get labeled with all this stuff to keep them in that box and never ever stepping out of it.

227

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: We know what those labels are. I don't have to name them. But

228

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: yeah, it starts there. That's where it starts. I'll say to people all the time, and they jump on coaching calls and and things with me. I say, you weren't born this way. You were manufactured this way as soon as you walked into that school system. They manufactured this for you. This isn't your fault. You you had no control over this.

229

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You just download. These programs are all safe. They're all familiar with all repetition. You're working as designed. But, hey, we can sort of reprogram you from that manufacturing programming, and help you step into the person you were supposed to be. Now that will be uncomfortable. That will be unfamiliar. Be very unsafe, but in 8, 9, 10 years time it will be familiar. It will be more comfortable, and it will be more safe. But you'll still continue to grow

230

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because the school system wants to stop you from growing, and they want to manufacture you, as you just said before, into a workout rather than a thinker.

231

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Thinkers, thinkers are expensive.

232

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 100%.

233

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I I homeschooled 3 of my 5 kids for that very reason. And then when they got into high school, or when they

234

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: turned 13. We have a an alternative school in our community

235

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: which is

236

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: like 7 HA day, 4 days a week, no homework.

237

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And they were for

238

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: basically, it's for kids that couldn't make it in regular high school. They were. They were just

239

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they're the more creative kids and

240

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: kids that would getting into trouble

241

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: for the most part.

242

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: but I thought it would be a good idea to send my kids there anyway.

243

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and so they would go there when they were 13,

244

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and they each. They each had a different experience. They went for 3 years. They all graduated when they were 16, except the youngest. She graduated when she was

245

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: 15

246

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in 3 quarters.

247

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she just like

248

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she blew through it. But

249

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: then it was during Covid. But our approach to it was. There's only 4 teachers over there. I knew all 4 teachers. I knew what they were teaching, and

250

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it was a game.

251

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: The game is you're going to get A's. I don't really care how you get those A's. But you need to get A's.

252

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And they they would cheat. They would tell me what they were doing, and just like, Well, okay.

253

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I don't care.

254

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's a game. What we're going for is that piece of paper that says I graduated from high school

255

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they did make A's.

256

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They

257

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: did creative things. The youngest who graduated when she was 15, she

258

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She never did anything like

259

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: not totally on the up and up. Let's put it that way

260

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to get to get her grades.

261

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She made all A's except for one class, and they he gave her a B plus, just because he couldn't give her straight. A's through the whole thing.

262

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And

263

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it was just.

264

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's it's the approach that parents take to schools

265

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: like, it's the teacher's job to give you information. It's your job to

266

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: assimilate that information and feed it back to them in the way that they want to hear it.

267

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Whether it's right or wrong is not is not anywhere near the point, because most of it's wrong.

268

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Just let's be honest.

269

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're not keeping up with what's happening. And there's information that comes out every day.

270

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's just the the amount of information is just like spilling out so fast in the world that

271

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: school, in the traditional sense, it has to change.

272

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, it's

273

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's a waste of time. I'm sorry.

274

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It is, if people from your show want to listen to my show on the breaking free, podcast my last 3 episodes, I'm showcasing a lot of these alternative systems, these former teachers that have started these alternative systems. And they're doing some really awesome things. There's children that are starting podcasts at like 12 years old, and putting on spotify. There's there's children that are wanting to do, Ted Talks. I interviewed a 14 year old last week, and she just blew me away. She's doing meditation.

275

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: she's thinking for herself. She's looking at Jodi Spencer. She's looking at at these, at these other people as as they're her. They're her you could say

276

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: late leaders and idols, and it's like.

277

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Oh, my God! She's doing the yoga! She's doing all these things! I'm like, Oh, my God! Like these alternative systems are doing some really awesome things. However, you have these government department sort of systems wanting to shut these down, because look at what they're doing.

278

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah.

279

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Creating people that have ideas, and

280

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the ideas are like spreading.

281

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah.

282

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: A young girl on Youtube who has like millions of downloads for her shorts. She's 17, and I can't remember her name. I wish I could. But she she's just amazing. And she goes on, talk, shows, or on podcasts. And she, she talks about

283

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the attention to detail, and how she studied all these other

284

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: really good podcasts who did shorts like Mr. Beast, and she like, took it all apart. And

285

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and so now she

286

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she thinks that if she creates a short and it doesn't get a million downloads or a million views.

287

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: there's there's something wrong with that that episode or that video.

288

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She's that good. And there's there's like so many kids out there who have Youtube channels and tick tock, and all of these different

289

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: content creation systems

290

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: out there that they're monetizing, and they're just doing spectacularly well.

291

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.

292

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And they're bringing value to the marketplace.

293

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Something that's, you know.

294

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: been missing for a long time.

295

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah. And I say that to a lot of the children that I work with, too, that the teens, I say, look, there are children, your age that are making some serious amount of money here online. And you can do this, too. Here's how you can do it. Follow these people, take the good and the bad and the ugly, make it your own, and go out there and shine, because in a world that doesn't want you to shine, being the one that shines will get you so far.

296

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's what I say. Every time.

297

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah. And it's not on looks or anything else it's on, you know, who's who's out there being the most creative.

298

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: How different can you be? I mean, look at the people that were doing those planks.

299

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Good.

300

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's something really outlandish and.

301

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But that's the thing inside the school system. We're looking for that familiarity and that safety amongst the tribe. We don't want to be different because we don't want to be ostracized.

302

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Okay, so back to my.

303

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Daughter again the 15 year old, they kept telling her.

304

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Don't don't let her wear these dresses, my daughter. She's

305

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she dresses up.

306

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She looks like an anime character most of the time. She has pink hair.

307

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She's

308

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she's so cool, but

309

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she just

310

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she just when she was young she'd I never really said no, you can't wear that. She would wear these

311

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: crazy outfits, and the school was like, no, we just want her to wear her pajamas to school sweatpants and a T-shirt.

312

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: So like.

313

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Okay. So just wear your sweatpants and a t-shirt.

314

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Awesome. You just letting her explore and figure things out for herself. It's yeah.

315

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, she's so creative. And it's just it's who she is. And and

316

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you know, maybe because I was 44 when I had her. I I just like

317

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: oh, honey, you're the greatest gift ever.

318

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I don't.

319

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I do care what you do. But you know, explore who you are.

320

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: You're

321

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you're great.

322

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.

323

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And she's just

324

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: grown into this amazing human being.

325

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: All of my kids are really great, but

326

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she's just a baby, so I can be really proud of her.

327

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's awesome.

328

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So how do you do this coaching that you do? Is it in groups? Is it one on one.

329

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do have groups. Yeah, I did a. I launched a a teenage program back in March the the growth that those that those 4 that those 4 children were in the the growth? Was it? Was there like the data? Was there like it was that started here? And I just I remember. I I'll tell you a story about it. I said to this kid he wanted a soccer ball. He's 13

330

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: who was 13 in March. He wanted a soccer ball, and and I knew he he wanted that soccer ball, because Mum and I were exchanging emails about it, and I wanted to bring it up to show how he could get it in in another way, because he immediately went, Mom, can. I'm a soccer ball. And Mom went like that. And she shook her head. And I said, Okay.

331

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: what does that feel like? And he goes. I feel I feel sad. I feel angry. I just I wanted moms. I said, Okay, well, what's another way? You can get a soccer ball, Joel? And he went.

332

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I don't know. I said, Okay, well, what about if you're at the supermarket tomorrow, you're at a market or wherever you go, and you just happen to find someone that's got a bag of soccer balls. That's like I've got all these balls. He always want to get rid of them. What if you're because he was still going to school at this point. What if you're at school in a couple of weeks time? And the PE teachers, you know, ordered a heap of new socket balls, and he's wanting to get rid of some that are still relatively new, but because there's newer ones he just wants to get rid of them just to.

333

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: anyway. Fast forward a month and Mom emails me. Oh, the PE teacher gave Joel a soccer ball the other day I went. Oh, really.

334

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Joel's smile on his face. She said. You couldn't. You couldn't wipe it off, because what I helped him through was that there are other ways to get that thing you have to be focused on. Just one thing

335

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that PE teacher was actually did order new soccer balls and gave some of the kids ones because

336

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: done.

337

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Bang! There it was.

338

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and he walked away with a brand new soccer ball didn't have to pay a cent.

339

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and he's like, Thank you, I said, well, if you can expand your mind and open it up. You can open up to all these potentials. But we get so focused on that one thing in that one outcome. I did that, too. You know, I went and saw psychics and different people that told me I was going to do this and do that. And I got focused on it, going the way I wanted it to go. But I needed to open my mind and expand and be like, well, there's so many

340

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: potential so many things. It can happen in any way. Just be open to that, and then take the inspired action for that to come into your life and me learning that helped Joel be like, well, mate, you just expand that.

341

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You're gonna allow that in because you want that ball. So you're gonna get that ball just that mom isn't gonna get it for you.

342

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah. Unbelievable.

343

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Rather than going around just being mad at Mom. And then you've taken your focus off of getting the soccer ball. Now, you're just mad at Mom.

344

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yep.

345

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Now you're out there looking for

346

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the opportunities.

347

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: When is it? Gonna show up? I can hardly wait.

348

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's the thing, too, you know. We become very impatient with it, too. So that creates another energy. It's just finding that that place of stillness, of calm, and trusting that whatever that thing is will come because you've already put the order into the universe. So it's gonna come, or God, or spirit, or Jesus, or whatever you do believe.

349

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and that universal Casino of life will just

350

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: give you that thing in the most beautiful timing. But there might be some work for you to do to get that thing. You might have to go through some pain, some stuff to be able to get to the other side of that. So who knows but at some point that thing will come with inspired action? Trust, patience, resilience, and discipline.

351

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: For sure. I I love that.

352

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And I love the story

353

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: because it's

354

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's it's a true case of manifesting and opening up to the possibilities. And we.

355

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do it all the time. And that's what I teach inside my programs is that

356

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the school system teaches you the goal setting and the manifesting to a point. They don't teach you the rest. Once you figure out the rest

357

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: look out, and I teach that.

358

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: That is.

359

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Not teach it. I facilitated. I guide it so they can. Yeah. But I'll say, Teach, but yeah, it's a powerful thing, and that's how powerful we are.

360

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and also inside the school system. It's all about resumes, cover letters, career expos. You don't have people like us, Jill, coming in and saying, this is how you start a podcast this is how you start an online business. This is how you can make money online. It's just that manufacturing of that worker rather than expanding the children's minds being like, well, if you don't want to do the job.

361

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you can do this other cool stuff. We're not. Gonna we're not going to highlight or showcase that other cool stuff. He's a career. Expo. Go and be a truck driver, go and be a nurse, go and be a doctor, you'll get all the gratification, get all the safety, all the glory of being those people because they're portrayed in the media as being such

362

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: powerful, awesome people. Don't worry about little little old Johnny over here. He's got an online business is absolutely thriving and killing it. We'll give you all the glory. Go and do your job, and then learn to resent that for the rest of your life. Well done! See you later.

363

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And spend a lot of money

364

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to realize how miserable you are.

365

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: especially in the medical community. Man. I

366

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I talk to people all the time that spent gobs, and I mean gobs of money

367

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to become doctors or nurses or physicians, assistants or whatever. And they're they're just.

368

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're miserable.

369

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They work long hours. They're not really compensated all that. Well, considering the debt that they had to take on to get to that point.

370

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and

371

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you know they could have gone and become a health coach and

372

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: lived a much better life

373

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and actually helped. People had an impact that.

374

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: instead of just, you know.

375

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: continuing on a charade and making the pharmaceutical companies rich.

376

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they could actually have an impact on on one human who.

377

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: when one human heals it, impacts.

378

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: The ripple.

379

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: All the yeah, the ripple effect that impacts everybody around them.

380

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So

381

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: so.

382

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: There's no safety, there's no there's. There's no safety in in that, though. If you look at the the way the media portray these people. There's a lot of safety in that

383

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: on a sublevel, subconscious level. If you want the gratification.

384

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: See you, though.

385

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Exactly, but if you want to be a hero, then they'll portray a hero for you to go and be. It's not necessarily the the natural hero. It's a

386

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: inverted.

387

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: sick hero.

388

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, it's

389

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's terrible. The amount of lying that goes on

390

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to young people who are at a point where they could do whatever they want to do.

391

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: because there's there's really a very short amount of time from the time you get out of high school to the time you end up starting to form families or form partnerships

392

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: where

393

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you're free to do whatever you want to do

394

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you, you really can explore all your options, and we we push people into going to college, which is another money making

395

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: conglomerate out there that doesn't really help people. It just enslaves them in debt.

396

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're gonna get the same kind of job when they get out of college. That they could have, you know, joined a union, or learned a trade, or learned a skill.

397

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and

398

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and they've got it.

399

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You're easier. You're easier to lie to. You're easier to rule. You're easier to manipulate. You're easier to govern when you're in debt when you're in fear when you're in panic, when you're into fear, when you're broke, when you're weak, when you're poisoned, when you're all of these things, you're easier to manipulate. You're easier to manufacture. If you can empower yourself step by step, inch by inch. Progression, not perfection. You'll be able to empower yourself to sidestep all this shit.

400

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah. And and we really need that for the next generation. Because

401

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: this, the system we've got going on right now is a broken. I'm I'm

402

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: so happy about that.

403

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: B needs to change.

404

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It does.

405

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And it is changing because, you know, coaches are out there

406

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: talking to people, and

407

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: people are waking up. They're.

408

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's the thing. One conversation one seed

409

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: may not grow in the moment you might really trigger that person might be a very heated conversation.

410

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: but 6 to 12 months time that seed will grow.

411

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: If it's supposed to grow, it will, and that person might circle back and say, Hey, thank you for saying what you said. Sorry for the way I reacted. Not responded.

412

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You've helped me, and it's like that. One conversation could just light a spark, create a ripple, and one by one, inch by inch, step by step, we will. We will get there, because this is the time of it now and the next.

413

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: astrologically speaking, here, the next 4 years are going to be huge here, here here on Earth. As

414

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: some energetic things are happening, we're we're connected to that. So we're gonna shift into that. And it's gonna be an interesting 4 years could get Rocky. But

415

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: we all chose to be here.

416

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do believe that.

417

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Oh, it's so exciting!

418

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Please.

419

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I really believe that good is coming. And it it's already here. Today was a good day.

420

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and today will be a good day for you.

421

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: You're just starting.

422

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I am just starting. It's actually yeah. What are we? 16 h apart? So yours. Friday night, there.

423

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Friday afternoon. And your Saturday morning. And I love that you know we can time, travel and meet in space somewhere, that doesn't even exist.

424

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah. And speaking of that, too, you know, if your listeners and your viewers want to be that better version of themselves, or they or they have this dream or this goal. Well, speaking of time, travel, that person already exists out there. So if you can imagine that person walk up to that person. What's it feel like? What's it taste like? What's it smell like? What are you hearing? What are you seeing? And then walk up to that person, and just.

425

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: or for me. I just walked up to that person that wants to be the father and the husband and the provider and the leader. I just walked up to him and said, I want to be you now. 3 years ago I walked up to that person after the bowled out table incident, and he had the podcast he had the book. He had all these things. I walked up to him and said, I want to be you. I'm living that guy now

426

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that guy existed 3 years ago. I wanted to be him. Here he is, and during 3 years, time or 2 years time, whenever it is, there's another version of me. I want to be so. I'm continuing to step into those versions of me that exist. So it helps me still to grow, evolve and and become that next better version of me.

427

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I wanna see how far I can go up Success Mountain. I wanna get to the top of that thing. So that's where I'm going.

428

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And and the people that you need to help you. They just will come alongside you and walk with you. It.

429

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 100%.

430

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I've I've met so many people on this journey. It's like.

431

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Sign.

432

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're all so interesting, and they're all.

433

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Falling, falling through, falling through that table

434

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 24 h late. 5 h later I was introduced to my mentor. Now Jason.

435

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I then went on a journey up the northeast coast of Australia with my brother, and we met so many other awesome people that helped me step into my power and helped me remember who I am.

436

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It was that table moment that set off this path of where I am right right now. If it wasn't, it would have happened in another way, of course, but it had to be that table, and it's like, well, those people they were already there. I just

437

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: had to go through some stuff to be able to have those people come into my life.

438

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and also let go of those old belief systems of of that old life

439

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to welcome in that newer

440

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that that knew a lot. It was hard letting go of my old town and my old friends and some of my family.

441

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: but the people I've met since it's it's chalk and cheese.

442

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Never heard that expression before. I love it.

443

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Australian one. It's an old one, but I've said that a bit lately. I don't know where I've got that from, but.

444

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And genius. Yeah.

445

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Leaves a leaves a good picture in your head.

446

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It does.

447

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So how can people get in touch with you, Nathan?

448

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Well, this is. This is February. Now, isn't it? So we've time jumps. We're actually in November. But this is being released in February. So my website is nathanfrancis.com. I can find me there. You can find my name again on social media, on you, on Instagram, Facebook. Tiktok just put in Nathan, Francis and I'll we'll come up.

449

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: can find my podcast. On Youtube apple, spotify rumble and Amazon. It's the breaking free. Podcast.

450

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: By the time this goes up I could be 900 episodes in, and it's so many awesome free information there, so many awesome guests, heaps of solo ones as well, and the information is all there for free my website. There's a lot of blogs on there that I've written over the course of my journey over the last 4 years, you can circle back to the very 1st one, be very different to the one I've currently written.

451

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Even my 1st podcast that I did I cut the guest off and all that was a very, very funny podcast it is still there it can sort of

452

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: for me. I just grew on that podcast if I didn't start it, I would never would have started. And I just learned a lot along the way

453

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and

454

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: yeah, everything's there. And if you really, you know, if you want to work with me and you've and you can do that too. You can book in a free discovery call, and we can have a chat about all things, you and how I can help you strive to be the best version of you because

455

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I see your potential. I had someone say it in me, and I love that. I can now see it in others, because we all have potential. We all came here to do something. We were just manufactured and programmed to do something else that wasn't organic to us.

456

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I'm here to help you remember who you are and what that is.

457

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Awesome. So what's the one thing you hope the audience takes away from this conversation.

458

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I hope the one thing the audience takes away from this podcast. Is that you have the power. You have the potential. You you came here to do some really awesome things

459

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: if you can. If you can sit with yourself and find that stillness, and find that calm, and allow yourself to feel what it is you need to feel, feel the anger, feel the sadness, feel the pain, the pain. Teacher, feel all of these things, but then allow yourself to feel the joy, feel the excitement, feel happy, feel all the emotions, and then ask yourself 2 simple questions. Who am I?

460

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Who am I beyond the title that I've given myself. What if it's the job? Or if it's the coach or podcast host or author, whatever it is, who am I beyond that. Keep asking yourself who you are. Get to that place where you don't need any of these labels. You're just you

461

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because you're more than just your name. You're a soul that has inhibited this body for a human experience. But you're also here to do some cool stuff. Ask yourself who you are, and keep asking yourself who you are, and then ask yourself, what's true to me.

462

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Is that belief system true to me?

463

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And if it's not true to you ask yourself where it come from, you'll know where it's come from. Might be your family home might be school might be somewhere, and then ask yourself, well.

464

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: how do? How can I change that?

465

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Because once you ask yourself those questions consistently

466

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: over a 3 week, 4 week, 5 week period, you will be a different person.

467

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because your perception of yourself and the world will begin to change, and allow yourself to to really feel that change, because you can then, inch by inch, step by step, progression of perfection get to that next version of you.

468

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You have so much power and so much potential. If you could just see a little bit of it, just a teensy, tiny bit. It ignites this spark, the spark ignited in me, and you will be the only one that will put it out. There'll be no other influence that will put it out. It will just be you versus you.

469

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and that's the way to go. Keep going. You got this.

470

Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I love that. Thank you so much for joining me.

471

Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: No worries. Thank you for having me.